It’s late Saturday night and I’m playing a themed drain game.
I’ve crafted it with care for a foot worship finsub and for the next 20 minutes, he’s mine. For the next 20 minutes, it’s exquisite torture.
For the next 20 minutes, he enters my wheelhouse: tease and denial.
There are three rules:
He must answer my questions honestly.
He must do as I say.
He cannot cum until I say so.
I send a censored photo. I ask a question.
He answers. And I tease. The photo comes back with a sliver revealed. More obedience is needed. More answers. More sends.
I draw it out. A censored photo strip tease. Every new sliver of unblurred skin, every toe, every inch of my arch is both tease and denial.
Something more is coming, it teases.
It’s not here…yet… It denies.
He holds his breath and waits to see when the final photo will be revealed. Every new sliver a little less left to his imagination. Every new sliver a tiny denial, a heady delay.
The questions are teases too.
They’re focused, sensual, vulnerable.
The sends are a tease. Small, then large, then small again. Strokes that build against his findom kink.
The commands are teases. Stop. Feel your heartbeat. Say my name. Go.
Every piece of this game is carefully crafted, a tease and denial dance centered on his core kink. A heady release delayed, delayed again, and finally achieved.
This is how I see and why I love tease and denial. It’s why it makes some form of appearance in almost everything I do.
It’s about pulling the threads of desire tight, building the tension, living in that space of anticipation and not knowing how long you will be there. This time it was 20 minutes. With another sub, it became a 28-day chastity game.
The pleasure, the pain, the thrill, the focus, the thread stretched between us—that’s anticipation. It’s the tease. It’s the denials that are actually mostly delays.
And when I release that thread, it becomes something more than the seconds of orgasm. The pleasure has stretched and expanded to fill those 20 minutes, that week, that 28 days.
You say thank you, Goddess. I tell you to hydrate. You rest, satisfied. Until the build starts all over again.