Some of you want to know why I ask you to fill out a form instead of starting with a conversation. And I get it: for you this is one of just a few conversations you might have with potential goddesses. It’s vulnerable and exciting and thrilling. And being asked to fill out a form can feel sterile to some. Distant. When the last thing you want is distance.
But here’s the thing:
It’s not fun for me to ask 10 or 20 or 50 people per day what time zone they’re in and how they found me. I’m not excited to talk to random strangers. My inbox if full of them. And right now, that’s all you are to me.
You might be the best fit, the most amazing sub, a person I would love to play with—but I don’t know that yet. And every conversation is a demand on my time, which means the more convos I have, the more tired I am—and the less enthusiastic.
When you fill out my form, you answer all the boring, important questions (time zone, age verification link) and you get to tell me the less boring things: your kinks, your experiences, your hopes.
Instead of 5 or 10 or 15 minutes of back and forth, I can read your whole application in seconds. And chances are, I will something exciting in it.
You’re a fincuck? I love it.
You’re into tease and denial? Yes, please.
You want to play dress up with me? Let’s go, darling!
When I read the application, I get excited. And when I come into your DMs afterward, I’m already excited to talk to you.
This starts our conversation on a totally different foot. I know what questions I want to ask. I know where our kinks align. I probably already have ideas about how I’d toy with you.
The conversation will be 100% better for both of us. It will be, in short, the conversation you hoped to have in the first place.
On the other hand, if we aren’t a fit, I can say that and wish you well and neither of us wastes more time. I might even refer you to another goddess who is a better fit (I’ve done it before). Win-win.
So when I ask you to fill out my form, understand that this is not a way to keep you distant. It is a way to get myself excited, save time, and connect with the right people.
If you think that right person is you, filling out the form is best thing you can do.