Let\u2019s start here: I love a cuck. I love to tease. I love to push your buttons. I love to know that you know it\u2019s date night and I\u2019m having a series of orgasms at someone else\u2019s hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Here\u2019s what I don\u2019t love: when you say a man is my alpha.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Even just typing that, I barfed in my mouth a little.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
First off, go fucking unsubscribe from the brain-rot influencers who taught you that word. Repeating it makes you look stupid.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Because all it takes is a few minutes of research to find out where the term came from\u2014and that it\u2019s been debunked.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The idea of alphas began with a scientist studying wolves. The pack had an alpha<\/em>, he said. The strongest wolf. The main wolf. The boss. The \u201cdominant\u201d wolf.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He published a book on it. And then realized he was wrong and spent his entire life trying to undo the damage<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Because, news flash #1: wolves don\u2019t have alphas. He was observing a family<\/em>. The parents trying to keep their kids safe, teach them, guide them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n News flash #2: he was observing captive wolves\u2014and very quickly observed that wolves don\u2019t behave the same way in the wild<\/em>. It\u2019s like saying we can study a prison population and use that study to talk about how people behave outside prison. These two things are not the same.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And news flash #3: even if neither of those things were true, you are not a wolf<\/em>. You are not a bear. You are not a lion. And you are not a lobster. If every animal behavior were part of humanity, hoo boy would life be different. Hamsters eat their babies. Squid *punch sperm into their bros* (go look it up). Show a dog a piece of roadkill and he\u2019ll probably roll around on it. Wolf behavior isn\u2019t any more predictive of human behavior than any of those examples.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The reason you think it is is incel culture<\/em>. That\u2019s where the talk of alphas and betas in the world of men took off. So feel free to be embarassed that you adopted the idea uncritically.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Just using the word alpha drops my estimate on your intelligence. And thinking I would let a man dominate me drops it further.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When I say I love submissive men, I fucking mean that shit.<\/strong> I mean that in my heart and my soul and my bedroom. I mean that the love of my life is the same man who comes over almost daily to pick dog poop out of my yard, who curls up after a long day with his head in my lap, who was the first person to collar himself with me. He is the one granted entry to the most sacred spaces of heart, mind, and body. Not because he is in charge, but precisely because he\u2019s strong enough, centered enough in his masculinity and authenticity to let go of that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n He is not having his way with me; I am having my way with him.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n Nobody is the alpha (because that shit is stupid). But I am the boss. The holder of space. The lap he rests his head on. The safe space where he can take off his mask. The Goddess at the center of the universe. You want to admit my partner is a better man than you? You want to serve him? You want to serve us together? Go for it. But do not co-opt me into the patriarchal fantasy that women are all secretly submissive for some sort of extra-masculine bro. I do not consent to be dominated\u2014even in your fantasy and even not by you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I am his boss and<\/em> yours. That is kinky for both of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I am not conquerable\u2014period. And frankly, that reality is healing if you\u2019ll let it be. You are not submissive because you are less. You are not submissive because someone else is a better man. You are submissive because you are submissive\u2014no value judgement attached.<\/p>\n\n\n\n And if you want to play humiliated cuck? Well, when I say you can\u2019t please me like he does, it\u2019s not because he\u2019s alpha or dom. It\u2019s because of choices he makes every single day. Which means when you don\u2019t measure up? That\u2019s all choices too. And I can push your buttons even harder when we take \u201cI\u2019m just this way and nothing I can do about it\u201d well and truly off the table.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Let\u2019s start here: I love a cuck. I love to tease. 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Not every woman is submissive for \u201cthe right man.\u201d The alpha bros are not our fantasy. They are yours<\/em>. And fantasy is the operative word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n